Finding the G-spot: how to use a G-spot vibrator

The G-spot is a mysterious (and sadly, often neglected) part of the body... but we feel it’s about time for this erogenous zone to get a LOT more love and attention.

Whether you’re searching for answers to your G-spot-related questions or for the elusive G-spot itself, here we uncover exactly what the G-spot is, how to find it and how to stimulate it during masturbation and sex.

And of course, we'll also look at the best toys for the job and explain how to use a G-spot vibrator. We hope you’re ready for this…

Stronger orgasms? Oh YES!

Whether or not the G-spot actually exists has been hotly debated for decades, but recent research has concluded that it does – although it may be that not every person with a vulva has one.

Named after Ernst Gräfenberg, the gynecologist who’s said to have first discovered it in 1940, the Gräfenberg-spot (G-spot) is part of the clitoral network, made up of at least five erogenous structures which are closely intertwined.

Once stimulated, the clitoris can cause female ejaculation and help achieve strong vaginal orgasms – something that’s notoriously difficult with penetration alone.

Pleasure-seekers: here’s where to look

The G-spot is about two inches inside the vagina, on the top side of the vaginal wall (towards the belly button). To find it, gently insert two fingers, then lift upward towards the belly button in a ‘come hither’ motion.

You may be able to find it even easier if knees are drawn back towards the chest so that the fingers have better access. The G-spot will feel like a bean-shaped bump and may be more textured or ridged than the surrounding tissue.

Now for the good bit…

If you’re hoping to stimulate the G-spot with masturbation, use firm, deep pressure to stroke the area. When it feels good, increase the rhythm and create a lot of friction as you go to boost the chance of orgasm. If reaching the desired level of pressure by using fingers is proving a challenge, try a curved sex toy designed to hit the G-spot (more on this later).

During sex, there are several positions that are great for hitting the G-spot in juuuuust the right way. Try cowgirl and doggy style, which allow for deeper penetration and a little more control over movement, or explore these top sex positions for your G-spot. You can thank us later!

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What is the best G-spot vibrator?

As the name would suggest, G-spot vibrators are usually curved and are designed to be inserted into the vagina to stimulate that elusive zone and create a more intense orgasm. Look for one with a soft silicone exterior and amazingly intense vibrations for a comfortable but mind-blowing play session.

A toy with a slender G-spot curve but a reasonably thick shaft, such as the Pearl2 suits most users and tends to feel the most natural and comfortable if you’re used to penetrative sex. Created to fulfil the most intimate needs, Pearl2 is the world’s most high-tech G-spot hunter with touch-sensitive technology that adapts to your body’s movements for deep, powerful pleasure.

How to use a G-spot vibrator

Okay, so now you have your new best silicone friend in your hands (or perhaps it’s between your legs already), what next? As with anything related to sex, putting some foreplay first will enhance the experience. T

his is especially true when it comes to G-spot stimulation as it expands when aroused, making it easier to find and more pleasurable to play with when you reach it. Do whatever you need to do to get in the mood – whether that’s teasing or paying special attention to non-genital areas such as lips, boobs or butt – or firing up your favorite porn.

You could even connect Pearl2 to your favorite videos, VR, 3D gaming and other compatible devices for an otherworldly sexual experience.

If you’re trying to figure out how to find the G-spot with a vibrator, it’s actually very much the same as when masturbating using fingers – focus on the top wall of the vagina and imagine you’re stroking the belly button from the inside. And if you don’t find it straight away, we bet you’ll have a great time looking!

Remember, what constitutes great sex is different for everyone and the important thing is enjoying getting to know yourself or your partner better. Don’t be afraid to play around and revel in the sexual exploration – it’s half the fun! Ready to get started? Discover our full range of vibrators.

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THIS ARTICLE WAS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED ON KIIROO.COM ON MAY 4 2022.