What it's like using a male masturbator for the first time

What it's like using a male masturbator for the first time

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A person’s masturbation journey begins the moment he/she/they become aware of their sexual organs and the sensations they give us when touched by someone, or something. With a male having larger external sexual organs, their masturbation journey can start quite early. In fact, if I recall correctly, I started masturbating when I was at a young age. However, I didn’t consider bringing sex toys into the mix until I was in my late 20s.

Why such a late start with sex toys, especially strokers?

It’s actually quite easy. As I said, males have a larger external organ, and with our hands, we can easily try to assimilate the sensation our bodies are craving. Even if we don’t know the exact mechanics of sex.

The knowledge of the basics of sex, and what the body needs to be stimulated to get a taste of those basics is engrained in our DNA. And for a penis-having person, that stimulation is achieved mainly by the penis being enclosed.

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After spending nearly 2 decades masturbating only with my hands, taking on a sex toy of any kind was totally new. It, in fact, seemed massively awkward. But don’t worry. That awkwardness is not uncommon.

In fact, it is to be expected. For you just went from having your own body being the only sexual contact your body ever had, to upgrading that contact being with something else. It might not be another someone, but no matter what, it is another component for your sexual satisfaction besides yourself.

So the longer that has been the case, the more awkward it is going to be. Please, don’t let that intimidate you. I sure haven’t. If I were intimidated by that newness, most of my XTube and all of my OnlyFans videos wouldn’t be me with a sex toy.

One of the most useful purposes of a masturbation sleeve is for the most obvious reason that it can teach you how your penis responds to intercourse. For it will touch all the spots and have a texture that your hands can’t simulate.

Also, lube is another thing your hands need to bring you a masturbatory session that brings you closer to realism. This is a necessity even for uncircumcised males as their lubrication is only produced by the foreskin. Therefore, it only helps the head of the penis (glans).

With that said, I learned a lot about achieving an orgasm through penile stimulation because of my first sex toy. However, there were some things I had to learn later by way of trial and error.

Lessons that probably could have been learned sooner by using a vibrating stroker. But not just any vibrating stroker. For there have been a good number of vibrating strokers over the years.

However, none have been quite as detailed in their design to assist a newcomer to not just sex toys, but maybe even sex in general. So they could actually be a great option to be used as a teaching tool. That is until the Titan by Kiiroo came along.

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With the Titan, the 3 lines of 3 individually vibrating bullets can help you find out where exactly on your penis you are most responsive. Near the base, near the middle of the shaft, or more on the head.

Because the glans (head of the penis) is the go-to spot, many vibrating sex toys made for penile stimulation focus on stimulating only the head. However, since everybody is different, there are some males whose orgasm is achieved more so by playing along the shaft.

The benefit of finding these areas can lessen the number of cases of premature ejaculation. Even more so, a male who gave his virginity away decades ago can better learn how to build up sexual tension to intensify his orgasm.

Combining that self-awareness with the awareness of his sex partner’s pleasure points can make him a phenomenal lover by knowing how to give a mind-blowing experience to both (or more) parties.

The new variety of sleeves for the Titan are also a great help. For if you have noticed the variety of textures for different sleeves, then you might have noticed that the Power Sleeve for the Titan has the exact same texture.

Keep in mind how I said that the Titan’s vibrating bullets help in finding a male’s exact pressure points on the penis. That makes Kiiroo’s Titan an electronic upgrade to a manual male stroker.

Many people start off small when taking on something new, which is fine. There is no crime in that at all, and never let anyone shame you for it. Not even someone like myself, who tends to take on new things by going big.

Hence why I wish the Titan was around when I decided to buy my 1st stroker. For it would have definitely been my first choice. I could have started off without the vibration, then worked my way to finding the exact pleasure zones on my penis.

With that said, if you want to introduce yourself to sex toys, and give yourself a more advanced lesson on what your body needs, then Kiiroo’s Titan should be your #1 choice.


LeNair Xavier

LeNair Xavier has studied sex and sexuality by reading up on and observing various sexual behaviors. These observations has led to time in the gay porn industry, and now writing erotic poetry. Tales of his journeys leading to his growing sexual knowledge can be found on his blog, L’s X-Ray Vision.

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