Breaking the Stigma Around Male Anal Play
Anal play has long been treated as a form of play solely for gay men. With that being the case, anyone who is not a gay male but partaking of anal play was treated as either weird, or even worse, depraved. When in all actuality, neither is the case.
While some parts of human sexuality are still treated as revolting and orientation-specific, anal play has become lesser or both of points. Thus, making Kiiroo's Lumen an interactive sex toy that can be enjoyed by everyone.
Why the Lumen is a Game-Changer for Male Pleasure
The Lumen is not just a great interactive product alone. It is also great in combination with other Kiiroo products.
Since males are known for having the most issue with being a recipient in anal play, let's break that glass ceiling. Let's focus on which combinations, that include the Lumen, are great for male pleasure.
Even though we mention that all of these combos are great for couples play, it is also safe to say that they are great for solo play.
How to Pair and Control Kiiroo Toys for the Best Experience
When using the FeelConnect app, remember:
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Pair the Lumen to another Kiiroo device (Titan, Onyx+, Keon).
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Make the other toy (not the Lumen) the primary controlling device for a smoother experience.
Since the Lumen will be inserted during play, it’s easier to adjust vibrations using external control rather than trying to manage it manually.
Top Pleasure Combos Featuring the Lumen
Lumen + Titan
This is a good combo to start with. Since I have tried them for both solo and couples' play.
For solo play, I used this combo in a video that could be seen as a bold response to criticism. I’ve often spoken out about uncomfortable issues, and I’m sure some people would prefer I stay silent or, bluntly, go f#k myself. So I did just that... on camera.*
I paired a Lumen and a Titan with the Titan as the controlling device, and made a video titled “LeNair Xavier Go Fks Himself".
For couples play, it was not in a video. Instead, my example was in Part 3 of my erotica series for Kiiroo, “Tales of a Male Straight Porn Actor's Husband."
In that chapter “Zen's Abstinence… One More Day," the pornstar character, Zen has one more day of abstaining before a porn shoot. So to lessen his storyteller husband's sexual tension, he edges himself with a Titan while his husband has a Lumen in him.
Lumen & Onyx+
Since the Onyx+ works by touch sensors like the Titan, pairing it with a Lumen will very much work the same way.
Lumen + Keon
If you pair a Lumen and a Keon, making the Keon the controlling device, the Keon will not do its own stroking like it normally does. It will instead act as a holder for any FeelStroker and a controller for the Lumen by using the buttons on your right to control the intensity of the Lumen's vibration.
Any stroking will have to be done manually. To make it interesting, you can increase and decrease the intensity of the Lumen's vibration to coincide with your strokes of whatever stroker you have put inside the Keon.
Solo and Couples Play: Unlocking New Fantasies
All of these combos can be a part of a number of sexual fantasies and situations, as well as crossing sexual orientation lines.
From long-distance relationships; to the fantasy of being a middle playmate of an anal sex train; or even a fantasy like I mentioned in my article “5 Males In Straight Porn Gays May Like," where straight male pornstar Steve Rogers wore an anal toy while having vaginal sex with his female scene partner.
You can even use these combos as an introduction to anal play, or to prepare for anal sex.
Tips for First-Time Users of Anal and Interactive Toys
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Take your time exploring different toy combinations.
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Start with lighter vibrations and gradually build intensity.
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Communicate openly if playing with a partner.
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Explore both solo and shared experiences to find what feels best.
Own Your Pleasure: Explore Without Limits
So whatever products you choose to combine, live by my credo:
“MY BODY, MY CALL” — and have fun with it.
Written by:
LeNair Xavier has studied sex and sexuality by reading up on and observing various sexual behaviors. These observations has led to time in the gay porn industry, and now writing erotic poetry. Tales of his journeys leading to his growing sexual knowledge can be found on his blog, L’s X-Ray Vision.
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