Commanding Obedience: Five Ways to Use Erotic Hypnosis in Your BDSM Sessions

August 03, 2016

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Commanding Obedience

It seems like erotic hypnosis is the gift that won’t stop giving. If you’ve read my previous articles on this topic you know that erotic hypnosis can be an effective way to improve a couple’s sexual intimacy and can even be practiced effectively, even in a long distance relationship.

But some of you may have also been intrigued by another aspect of erotic hypnosis: the immense popularity of erotic hypnosis in the BDSM community. 

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Erotic Hypnosis and BDSM

That’s right, in their own wonderfully kinky corner of the internet Hypnodommes flourish, revered for the commanding nature of their voice. Don’t believe me? Just check FetLife where over 12,000 people are either ‘Into’ or ‘Curious About’ erotic hypnosis.

BDSM-driven erotic hypnosis even has its own book, published, by Alex Tsander who sees erotic hypnosis as an intriguing way to dive deeper into the world of hypnosis.

When asked why erotic hypnosis has such an appeal to the BDSM community in an article for Bizarre Tsander highlighted the similarities between hypnosis and the sensual release of the dom/sub dynamic. “It’s all tied up in issues of power and relinquishing control,” he stated. Hypnosis itself can also be a fetish, as Tsander notes that “I’ve met people who get a buzz from being hypnotized or the idea of it—usually vanilla individuals with a submissive side they haven’t come to terms with”.

In short erotic hypnosis can provide couples with a safe and wonderfully unique way of exploring their own proclivities towards dominance and submission.

What Does This Mean For Me?

Since I already introduced how to practice erotic hypnosis in my last article, I won’t touch upon it here. Instead, let’s look at five different ways that erotic hypnosis can be used in a BDSM session:

Invisible Restrictions

The link between literal links and the BDSM community is iconic. Chains, rope, silk scarfs, handcuffs, if there’s an item out there that can restrict a person then there’s a high chance that someone in the BDSM community has mastered its usage.

However, being tied up can be considered a bit too intimidating for some people (and in a long distance relationship it may be practically impossible). Safety always comes first and someone who is hypnotized should never be bound… at least not physically.

Using nothing but the voice a hypno-dominant may narrate binding their partner, making them feel as if they’re being tied up and guiding them into place with their voice.

Being descriptive is important here: the submissive should be able to imagine how the restraints feel against their skin; how tight they are and how they react to every little motion.

Much like your first pair of cuffs, this hypnosis should serve as a safe, introductory session of erotic hypnosis and its potential.

Enhanced Sensations

Another relatively safe suggestion (but with limitless potential) a hypno-dom may provide the suggestion that their submissive’s skin has suddenly become extremely sensitive, making every and any physical contact an intense experience.

This suggestion is best done in person, as it opens up fantastic opportunities for sensation play.

Once the suggestion has been put into place (and tested with a few well-placed caresses) the hypno-dom can use ice cubes, feather ticklers, pinwheels, etc. as they normally would, but now the submissive should find the experience much more concentrated.

If the focus of the session is more pain than pleasure, then a hypnotic suggestion and a good paddle should have even the most hardened of submissive whimpering with delight.

 

Complete Obedience

An oldie but a goodie. Having put their sub into a trance a hypo-dom may be free to make them do whatever they wish.

This could be something playful (like a hypnosis-induced erotic dance) or something more intimate (like a voyeuristic masturbation session).

The tone of voice is very important for this suggestion. The hypno-dom will need to be commanding enough to act as a dominant should but soothing enough to keep the trance state in place. It may take practice, but the experience is well worth it.

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Roleplay Scenario

Whereas enhancing sensations is best done in person, engaging in a hypnotic roleplay session is a fantastic suggestion for those in a long distance relationship.

Agreeing upon the script in advance the Hypno-dom can use hypnosis rather than physical contact in order to run through a roleplay experience.

This can be supplemented by physical contact but the point of this hypnosis is deeper immersion in the experience itself. In the realm of the mind, both the hypno-dom and the sub can explore role-play scenarios in a way that may not be possible in real life. Which brings me on to my final suggestion…

Deepening Fetishes

Fetishes are wonderful quirks that (when practiced in a safe, sane, and consensual way) should be a celebrated part of our sexual lives. However, some fetishes are inherently limited when it comes to real life.

Transformation fetishists, adult babies, and human puppies, to name just a few, may find that, no matter what, they can’t quite get the optimal degree of immersion from props alone. This is where the power of the mind comes in.

Once brought to a trance-like state, a Hypno-dom may choose to help them sub explore their fetish in a deeper manner. This may include narrating a transformation, setting up a scenario where a human baby is safe and sound in their nursery, or dictating the mindset of a human puppy as they tackle with some playmates.

Needless to say, this is perhaps one of the most intimate uses of erotic hypnosis and should always be treated with sensitivity and respect.

The Takeaway

From the newest of curious kinksters to the most dedicated of practitioners, erotic hypnosis provides an endless amount of possibilities for playtime. So what are you waiting for!? It’s time to get creative with erotic hypnosis! Practice it with the same level of respect, communication, and safety as a usual BDSM session and you’ll soon see just how beneficial it can be.

 

Written By:

Emmeline Peaches

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