Sex Toys for your Butt
Once upon a time, booty play was the ultimate taboo. The moment you mentioned anything to do with the booty, people would repulse at the sound of it. But luckily, people came to their senses, and now booty play has become a regular activity in sex.
You may be new into the world of butt sex/butt play or have done it before and want to spice things up in the bedroom. Either way, you’re here wanting to know more information, which is the first step into trying out anal penetration! You can try out different anal training kits or something similar. We created this crafty little guide to help you decide which anal toys are right for you and your partner.
If you think you know what they are by the name, you’re probably right. Anal beads are a row of silicone or ABS plastic beads that range in size. Once inserted into the anus, they’re slowly pulled out while climaxing—it stimulates the anal sphincter muscles for more intensity.
Non-Vibrating Anal Beads
Coming in all different sizes, they’re amazing for beginners. This beginner friendly sex toy is incredibly versatile and give users a taste of anal play without going full out. They can also be used for advanced anal play to increase anal stimulation. It’s a great anal sex toy for anyone.
Vibrating Anal Beads
So think of them like regular anal beads, only with a vibrating feature. But I’m not trying to downplay them. The vibrations give added stimulation. You can use a water-based lube like Kiiroo’s Aqua lubricant for smooth entry.
It’s important not to forget the prostate. Similar to the g-spot, the prostate is stimulated by massage or vibration.
Non-Vibrating Prostate Massagers
A non-vibrating prostate massager is small in size and designed to help relax the anus. They’re great for beginners engaging in anal or even the pros as a non-vibrating prostate massager stimulates the nerve endings and gently strokes the prostate.
Vibrating Prostate Massagers
Similar to a non-vibrating prostate massager, a vibrating prostate massager is used to stimulate the anal nerve endings but with vibration. It’s a great vibrating anal sex toy for butt play, regardless of your experience.
I know you know what a dildo is—a phallic-shaped toy that's inserted into the anus. Unlike any other anal sex toy, for anal stimulation, dildos need to be manually thrust in and out of the anus.
Dildos can be used for any hole and come in a huge variety of shapes and sizes. But for anal sex, you need to be cautious. You want to make sure your dildo has a flared base to prevent it from being...err...sucked in. So, always make sure your anal sex toy is designed to stimulate you the right way and has a flared base.
You or your partner may be interested in trying out an anal dildo but want to work up to that level of anal play—it's totally understandable. An anal probe is the beginner's dildo. They're long and narrows anal sex toy that offers a taste into what a dildo would feel like. So, if you're a beginner, starting off with this sex toy is a good idea (oh, and use lots of lube).
The odds are you’ve heard of pegging. You may not know exactly what it means, but you’ve heard of it. Pegging is when one partner wears a body-safe strap-on dildo to penetrate their partner. Pegging sets usually include one or more flared base dildos and a strap-on harness.
Well, we can’t talk about anal sex toys without mentioning butt plugs, can we? If you’re looking for extra anal stimulation, then a butt plug may be your go-to option.
Weighted Butt Plugs
Designed with a small weight inside, they give the feeling of fullness when inserted. They don’t necessarily vibrate, so you can wear them in and out of the bedroom.
Vibrating Butt Plugs
Rule of thumb: a vibrating anal sex toy is a beginner’s best friend. A vibrating butt plug relaxes the anal sphincter muscles, making it a more pleasurable experience for the receiver. A vibrating butt plug also stimulates the g-spot or p-spot—so it’s a real win-win when it comes to stimulating sensitive nerves.
Inflatable Butt Plugs
An inflatable butt plug is like any other butt plug, only you need to inflate it. It's inserted into the anus in its original size and then pumped up to expand the anal sphincter muscles. A great option if size turns you on.
Glass and Metal Butt Plugs
If you want something that feels a little harder than soft silicone, your best bet is to try a glass or a stainless steel metal anal plug. They’re more direct with anal stimulation as well.
Textured Butt Plugs
If you’re over the regular anal plug, then step up your game with a body-safe textured butt plug. The added texture adds new stimulation when engaging in anal. For example, the Lumen butt plug is ribbed for increased pleasure. Pair your butt plug with a water-based lube (don’t be cheap—use lots of lube) for an effortless experience.
Tail Butt Plugs
If you're into pet play, you can add a tail butt plug into your repertoire for a more authentic experience. Tail butt plugs can spice up your anal sex routine and usually come in body-safe materials, including silicone, metal, and glass (for non-soft silicone lovers).
Jeweled Butt Plugs
Is a jeweled butt plug different from the other butt plugs on the market? No. But they're a nice touch for people who like the idea of something shiny and sparkly in their butt. Jeweled butt plugs come in a wide range of different colors and materials. But be careful about what they are made of, crystal or gemstone dildos are not body safe.
A little bit of everything
There are just some sex toys that don’t fit into the categories above. But that doesn’t mean they should be left out. Here are some other toys for anal sex and anal play.
Anal hooks are a curved piece of stainless steel metal with a ball on one end and a loop on the other. The ball is meant to rest inside the anus of the submissive, with the loop used for tying a rope through. A body-safe anal hook is not for beginners. You really need to know what you're doing when using this specific toy.
The good ol’ cock ring. Although this is not an anal sex toy, the cock ring is meant to sit at the base of the penis, restricting blood flow to intensify orgasms and stamina. Cock rings usually come with a vibrating attachment for additional stimulation. So combine that with an anal sex toy of your choice for added stimulation.
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.