Positions For Your G-Spot
If you are anything like me, then the G-Spot plays a major role in your orgasm. It can easily be reached with specific toys and with fingers, but it can be a bit difficult to target during PIV (penis in vagina) sex. For most people, missionary-style intercourse just won’t hit their G-Spot. Never to fear, as there are plenty of positions that will keep your G-Spot singing!
For those wondering, the G-Spot is a sensitive area of the anterior wall of the vagina. It is about 2 inches inside and can often be reached by curling your finger towards your belly button. It is a ridged erogenous zone that is often (but not always) responsible for orgasms and squirting.
Please note that these positions can be tested with a penis, with a strap-on or with a toy.
Cowgirl is just a different way of saying “on top”. Although this is not a groundbreaking position, there is a lot going for it. Being on top means that you are in control. You can control the depth of penetration, as well as the angle if you lean forward or backward or even to the side.
You can control the friction and angle against your G-Spot. If you need clitoral stimulation as well, this is the perfect angle for your partner to get busy with their hands.
2. Reverse Cowgirl
Very similar to the Cowgirl, you simply just have to turn around. Bonus points if you can change directions while remaining on top (that takes skills). Reverse Cowgirl has all the same benefits of Cowgirl with the ability to control movements.
However, if your partner’s penis or toy has a curve to it, then the sensation will be completely different if you face the other direction. You’re essentially flipping it upside down, which can hit all sorts of pleasure points you didn’t think were possible.
3. Missionary With Support
The Missionary position on its own is not ideal for G-Spot stimulation. There is a simple way to change this sad fact. You can simply add a support cushion or pillow underneath your hips. This will raise your hips and angle your vagina upward to allow for a more G-Spot targeted stimulation.
What is fun about this addition is that you can use as many or as few pillows as you need. There are also wedges available to purchase from companies to help with positioning. Simply raising your hips can make all the difference.
4. The Anvil or Legs-Over-Shoulders
Similar to the Missionary Position, you lie on your back during penetration except your legs are over your partner’s shoulders. This does require some flexibility but can give you good motivation to do your stretches at the gym. Raising your legs will also help raise your hips (see number 3) and allow for deeper penetration.
Resting your legs on your partner’s shoulders can help support you in lifting your body. Feel free to cross your legs while keeping them elevated, which can increase the intensity by increasing friction. It also looks super sexy to watch in a mirror.
5. Doggy Style
The ever-popular G-Spot position: doggy style. This is when you get on your knees with your partner penetrating you from behind. Doggy style allows for the deepest penetration, as well as almost guaranteed to rub against your G Spot. If you’re having difficulty staying upright on your knees, then grab a few pillows and support your stomach/hips with them.
Your partner won’t care – they’ll be too busy enjoying the depth and the sound of your moans from hitting the right spots. Feel free to stay on your knees or slowly lie down flat with your partner still inside of you. If you do choose to lie down, raising your butt will help get the right angle.
6. On The Edge
If you have a tall bed or suitable kitchen counters or a sturdy table, then an easy position to keep you at an elevated height is to sit on the edge of the bed/counter/table while your partner stands and penetrates you. By lying back or sitting upright (or anything in between) you can control the angle of penetration.
The closer to the edge, the deeper your partner can go. Your partner can hold up your legs, or if you prepare in advance, you can get yourself a little table or chair to rest your legs. If you’re in for a workout at the same time, keep your legs raised on your own and it will definitely help define your abs – talk about a bonus.
7. Anal Sex
You might be surprised to hear that you can have G-Spot stimulation from anal sex. You might be thinking that they are located in two different body parts – and you’re not wrong. However, because of the close proximity of the vaginal cavity and anal cavity, as well as the angle created by anal sex, you can stimulate your G-Spot.
It is indirect stimulation of your G Spot, but it can do the trick. In fact, this phenomenon is credited for a lot of anal sex orgasms. Not to mention the possibility of clitoral stimulation at the same time.
4 SEX POSITIONS THAT SOUNDED BETTER IN THEORY
We’ve all been there. You’re feeling adventurous. You want to spice up your sex life, so you try out some crazy sex positions. What could go wrong, right? But then gravity and your poor stamina kick in and you wish you’d have just stuck with the good old missionary position. Open up any edition of Cosmopolitan magazine and you’ll be bombarded with the most elaborate, acrobatic, gravity-defying, mind-blowing, crazy sex positions.
You can’t help but wonder “When is the last time I got laid doing anything other than the trusty missionary position, doggy style or cowgirl position?”. “What is the wildest sex you’ve ever had?”
You decide it’s time for a change. You will spice up your sex life, no matter the cost. Just be careful, because sometimes crazy sex positions sound super hot in theory, but just do not work at all when you try them out in real life.
SHOWER SEX: THE FINAL FRONTIER
Just imagine a smoking hot guy or gal butt naked in an equally steaming hot shower. Water and soap dripping all over their fine-ass body… It’s not hard to understand the appeal of shower sex...until you actually fucking try it.
First of all, shower sex requires you to do it standing up and attempt standing positions. Which might be a no-brainer if you’re a seasoned gymnast, but otherwise it is quite hard. Secondly, the water in the shower can actually make your private parts dry and therefore not very suitable for intercourse.
Another concern with shower sex is that it is slippery, which might lead to an awkward visit to your local hospital. So be careful when trying to enjoy a steamy shower sex session.
"I'm not sure if this is universal, but what the heck, why is shower sex so difficult? It seems so sexy and obviously works in movies, but come on, it's like a broken hip waiting to happen. It’s too awkward to be worth it to me. How can you relax and enjoy yourself when you're worried about breaking your hip?! But wait, does everyone feel that way?” – Evelynn, 26
SEX IN YOUR CAR
There’s just something irresistible about the idea of having sex outside. Car sex gives you the thrill of outside sex, while still providing a certain amount of comfort and warmth. And protection from the wilderness. Nevertheless, crazy sex in your car is not always a bump-free ride.
If, up until now, you’ve only ever had sex in the safety of your own bed, switching to a motor vehicle might take a bit of getting used to. Especially the confined amount of space can be tricky, as you can read in the story below:
If you’re tired and horny at the same time, spooning sex might sound perfect. In this position, the man enters the woman from behind as they both lie on their sides. Sounds easy enough right? Nope.
Because of the unusual angle, it’s hard to reach full deep penetration in this sex position. Even if the guy's penis is big enough to penetrate, it will only be halfway in at best. Because of this, there will be little to no clitoral stimulation. So the chances that she orgasms in this sex position are slight. Also, this lazy position contains the risk of one of you falling asleep during your lovemaking session.
“The whole experience just felt kinda awkward. My girlfriend and I were in a bit of a rut in our sex life. So we wanted to try spooning-style for the first time. Only to find out that my junk wasn’t big enough to actually penetrate her from that angle. Talk about a mood kill.” – Jason, 24
REVERSE COWGIRL POSITION
The cowgirl position is a true classic, lovingly applied by couples all over the world. But if you’re looking to spice up your sex life, you might just want to turn things around. Literally.
In the reverse cowgirl position, the woman places herself on top of the man. But instead of going face to face and constant eye contact, she faces his feet. Now for some couples, the reverse cowgirl position is a gift from the sex gods. For others, however, not so much. As becomes obvious in this poor girls story:
“When I’m in reverse cowgirl position, I don’t feel very much, and I’m basically looking at my boyfriend’s feet, which aren’t very sexy. Since I can barely feel him inside of me, I only know it’s working by the sounds he’s making. Also, I really worry about breaking his penis off.” - Jessica, 30
FINAL THOUGHTS: So there you have it, 4 crazy sex positions that sounded better in theory. Perhaps sticking to something that is more up your lane would be better and safer.
Just remember, sex should be fun, and G-Spot stimulation can really enhance the experience. If it isn’t stimulating your G-Spot, change it up, even if that means simply adding a pillow into the mix. We all deserve pleasure, so try out a few positions until one of them works for you!
Want to start interacting with toys? Also for this one we got the best positions sorted out.
DIFFERENT SEX POSITIONS TO TRY WHEN USING AN INTERACTIVE SEX TOY
We’ve all been asked to practice self-isolation during the pandemic, but that’s created some issues for people in relationships, whether they’re in long-distance relationships or not.
While some couples are living under the same roof, they still need to keep a distance from their partners. So, in the world of love and intimacy, it hasn’t been easy. But, luckily, we’re not living in the 16th century (could you imagine?).
Today, with the help of technology, we have the tools to keep the spark alive no matter the distance. If you have an interactive sex toy, you’ve probably been using it a lot with your partner, and you may be looking to spice things up in your sex life. Well, we have 6 different positions for you to try out and some extra tips to get the most out of your adult toy via video chat.
With this lockdown, not many of us have been able to show off our favorite parts of our bodies. If you love your legs, this is the perfect position for you. Lay in front of your bedroom mirror, raising your legs up against it.
Your body will look slim and elongated while your partner will get the perfect view of your bum. If you have an interactive sex toy, you’re ready to go.
If you want to blow your partner’s mind while having video sex, the Humping Pearl tests how deep you’re willing to go.
With an interactive vibrator, squat over the toy, pushing it in and out to demonstrate penetrative sex.
Let your partner remote control the speed and vibration patterns as you flex your leg muscles. You’ll get a good leg workout and orgasm at the same time.
You have a secret you need to share with your partner on video, and it’s a naughty one. The good thing is you don’t need words; instead, show them. While lying on your back, on a bed, couch or pillow, spread your legs wide open.
Use your rabbit vibrator or clit stimulator to masturbate while your other hand stimulates your clitoris. Your partner can control the vibration patterns while you sit back and enjoy it.
STAIRWAY TO CLIMAX
Now, we didn’t forget about all the people with penises. Stairway to climax gets right to it. While sitting on the couch or bed, place the camera to the side of you. Then, all you need to do is use your interactive stroker and let your partner take control and do the rest.
Just make sure you stay in the frame while getting jerked off. You can use this while using a VR headset and experiencing VR content.
Every guy wants to be a titan, and this is one way to look like one.
While sitting up on your knees (place a pillow underneath to support your knees), use the interactive stroker while your partner controls the speed and vibrations.
Try to lean back a bit and let go. Just make sure you have a good balance or use one hand to support yourself.
While lying on the couch or bed, place the camera in front of you, focusing on the front of your body. This is a pretty classic masturbating position, but in front of the camera and your partner, it’s pretty hot.
With your interactive stroker, your partner will have a perfect view of everything from your dick to your face.
QUICK TIPS FOR A STEAMY VIDEO CHAT
Now that you have 6 new sex positions to try out, here are some of the best tips you can use the next time you want to have sex via video chat with your partner. Get to know your body before going on camera.
The best video sex is when you know your body and what makes it tick. When you’re having a video chat sex session, you want to get the most out of it. If you aren’t used to masturbating, give it a go before you go on camera.
Letting your partner watch you masturbate is also a whole other level of sexiness. By knowing what you like, your partner will learn what to do.
Lighting is everything
If you’ve taken a selfie before (who hasn’t these days?), then you know the importance of good lighting. And when you want to have a sexy video chat with your partner, it’s no different.
If you have a tall lamp, you can use that to set it next to your phone or computer, on the side you want more exposure. Make sure it’s set slightly behind the camera, so the light will fall on your face.
Use the color white
Usually, you’ll hear people talking about how to avoid using the color white when on camera, but hear us out. If you want to give some fill and bounce to the shot, take a piece white of paper or a white tablecloth and place it on the table you’re using. Just make sure it’s out of the frame.
Warm-up with some foreplay
We all know you want this video chat to be ultra-sexy, and we’re with you on that. But, the best video chats don’t start once the camera is on. You can use foreplay beforehand, by sending some naughty photos or texts and getting the vibe going.
If you’re new to dirty talk, it’s basically describing what you want to do to your partner (the dirty things, of course). Our best advice for dirty talk? Keep it simple and light.
Don’t start off naked
Why not leave some mystery to the eye? Of course, you can surprise your partner on camera completely naked, but don’t feel that you need to be naked. Be a little naughty by wearing a tight dress or revealing clothes, but without showing everything. Tease your partner by not giving them everything they want right away.
Focus on your favorite part of your body
We all have our favorite body part, and now’s the time for you to show it off. Maybe it’s your legs, your arms, your eyes. Whatever your favorite body part is, you can use the camera to emphasize it. If you love your breasts, have your chest facing the camera while wearing low-cut lingerie or sexy bra.
Confidence is key
Like anything, when it comes to sex, you want to feel comfortable with yourself and confident in your body. You may have the lighting set up perfectly, but you don’t feel you look your best. If that’s the case, play around with the lighting and your angles.
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
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