Sex Magic? Is it real?
No, this isn’t some Halloween-themed sexual event, it’s a real thing. It may sound weird to you just by its name, but don’t be so quick to judge!
Most of us have sex and masturbation because we love intimacy, we love a good orgasm (who doesn’t?), and it’s fun. An orgasm is more than just an orgasm - it relieves anxiety, alleviates pain, and boosts your mood (and those are just some of the benefits).
But some people go a step further and use their orgasms for a greater, more meaningful purpose. And that’s what the art of sex magic is all about. Oh, I know you’re curious. And who knows, maybe you’ll even give it a try after reading this. But first, let’s dive in.
What is Sex Magic?
In magic, orgasms are considered to be the ultimate magical force. Occultists believe that orgasms cleanse the body, and are the key to manifesting. It sounds mysterious, right? But it’s not. It’s actually pretty simple.
Sex magic is when you use the sexual energy of an orgasm to manifest your desires and make them reality. It’s basically just a super sexual manifestation practice (and I’m here for it!)
You may be thinking, okay, so when did this trend pop up? This isn’t some trend, it’s actually been practiced for centuries. Why are you only hearing about it now? Because witches didn’t feel safe enough to speak publicly about it. Sex magic has Tantra roots that have been taught since the 19th century. Sadly, up until recently, its history has been overthrown with misogyny, oppression, and sexism.
Why is it called that?
Sex magic is about the joining of sexual arousal or orgasm with the manifestation of a desired result. Back in the day, anything witches did was considered magic, which was considered to violate the natural law. Hence why it’s called sex magic. However, in reality, sex magic is simply manifestation.
What you need to use sex magic manifesting
Everything you need for sex magic is right inside of you (corny, I know. But it’s true). All you need is:
#1: Imagination - the ability to visual your desires coming true
#2: Desire - something you strongly want
#3: Pleasure - this can be masturbation or sex with your partner
See? You have everything you need. So don’t go wild and buy a bunch of crystals or go to a guru. You don’t need any of that, seriously. You can do it all on your own.
How to Use Sex Magic in the Bedroom
You can try sex magic by yourself or with a partner. Regardless of which one you choose to do, you want to set the scene and get yourself in the mood. Light some candles, play some soft music - do whatever gets you feeling good and connected.
Now, lay back and take some deep breaths while setting the tone for this session. What do you want? You can tell yourself an affirmation like “I am strong” or “I am open to new experiences.”
And now, it’s time for the fun part. Whether with your hands, a toy, or your partner’s touch, pleasure yourself while thinking about what you already have - in other words, manifest your desires.
Let the feeling of pleasure wash over you and imagine yourself living through your desires. For example, imagine yourself healthy, wealthy, and thriving. Think about how that would look for you.
Now, it’s not so important if you climax or not - that’s not the point of sex magic. The goal here is to take this energy of desire and build on it until you hit an orgasmic release. Naturally, this will take some time. So, if you don’t climax the first time, second time, third time - it’s okay. Nothing came without practice, eventually the universe will hear you.
What can I manifest?
You can manifest just about anything:
- Financial abundance
- Releasing negative energy
- Your own business
- New friendships
- More confidence
And these are just a few examples. Seriously, whatever you want - you can manifest it. So, don’t be afraid to shoot for the stars.
What kind of religions practice sex magic?
Sex magic is mainly practiced by the neo-pagan, Wiccans/witches, and magicians. Some groups place more emphasis on sex magic than others, but they all believe and work to unify the masculine and feminine energies towards a specific goal. Since sex magic has roots from Tantra, Hindus can technically be considered to practice a form of sexy magic as well.
Okay, so what do you think? Are you interested in giving sex magic a try? It may sound a little different from what you’re used to, but when you think about it, it’s just manifesting while having sex. So, reconnect with yourself, and harness your desire to get what you want.
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
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