Sex Toys that can Fit in Your Dresser Drawer and more
Maybe you’re interested in trying out sex toys on your own or with your partner, but you don’t know where to start. Fair enough, the world of sex toys has blossomed, and now, there are thousands of sex toys on the market. Where do you even start?
So, we’re going to break things down and show you the types of sex toys out there to help you pick the right ones for you. Are you ready?
Also known as personal massagers, they’re objects that vibrate, stimulating your genitals. They can be simple in design or incorporate high tech features, like remote controlled sex toys such as the Kiiroo Pearl2 G-Spot vibrator, which connects via smartphone.
It’s very common for people to use vibrators to stimulate the clitoris, vulva, and vagina. However, vibrators can also stimulate the penis, scrotum, anus, testicles, and nipples.
Vibrators come in a variety of shapes and sizes, with some specifically designed to go inside the anus and vagina. These types include devices such as a clitoral stimulator, rabbit vibrator or bullet vibrator. In contrast, others are designed for only external use, like the magic wand. Vibrators can be a fun sex toy for couples or for solo pleasure.
Dildos are objects that can be inserted into the anus, vagina, or mouth. Though they come in various shapes and sizes, they’re often shaped to look like either an abstract or realistic penis.
Naturally, aside from the shape, they come in many materials, with some made of metal, glass, silicone, and rubber. When it comes to the dildo vs vibrator debate, at the end of the day, the main difference is a vibrator vibrates, and a dildo does not.
With time, anal toys are becoming more popular and mainstream. Anal toys are made solely to stimulate and/or enter the anus. They include prostate massagers, butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos. Here’s an important note: when using an anal sex toy, lube is a must.
It’s also crucial to remember any sex toy you insert into your anus needs to have a flared base so that it doesn’t accidentally slip inside your anus. The last thing you want is a sex toy stuck inside your butt. So, always make sure your anal toy has a flared base like the Lumen by Kiiroo.
Sleeves have a couple of names. They’re also known as penis sleeves, strokers, or masturbation sleeves. These are soft tubes you place your penis into.
They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, with different textures for stimulation. Most sleeves are simple without any bells or whistles. However, some sleeves and strokers, such as the Titan VR experience, use high tech to create a virtual reality experience when using the sleeve. So, you can masturbate while in a different world.
Also known as cock rings—they go around the scrotum or penis. The penis rings restrict blood flow when the penis is erect, making the erection harder and last longer.
Typically, cock rings are best when made of a soft, flexible material such as silicone or rubber. Some also come as a vibrating cock ring; it simply depends on what you prefer. Whether they’re a vibrating cock ring or a non-vibrating one, you shouldn’t wear them longer than 30 minutes since they restrict blood flow.
Penis pumps are vacuum-like devices, either hand-powered or battery-powered. Which creates a suction sensation around the penis. Pumps increase sensitivity by pushing blood into the area.
Now, it’s a common misconception that penis pumps enlarge the penis; they don’t. They simply help you receive an erection. If you have a sexual dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction or orgasm disorder, penis pumps can help you. Most penis pumps are accessible at sex shops or online.
Also known as Ben Wa balls, vagina balls, orgasm balls, or Kegel trainers. They’re round balls you insert into the vagina. They help you exercise and tone your Kegel muscles. These balls are typically weighted, making you squeeze the vagina to keep the balls inside.
The Kegel balls can come in various sizes and weights. Though many use them to exercise their Kegel muscles, some simply like the feeling of them inside the vagina.
Also known as straps or strap-on harnesses, they’re straps that hold either a packer, dildo or other sex toys against your body.
Some harnesses are worn like underwear, and others like jockstraps or wrapped around your thighs. They’re used during penetrative sex, oral sex, or anal sex by a variety of people.
Now, BDSM is a big category, and many toys are included in this area, such as nipple clamps, floggers, butt plugs, whips, bondage, anal beads, and handcuffs. These types of sex toys can be used together and not necessarily for penetrative sex. These toys are used to explore the submissive and dominant relationship between couples.
Now, you know the types of sex toys available, it’s time you went and tried them out for yourself. Go to sex shops and see the different toys available. You may need to try a couple out until you find one that suits your needs. Regardless, this is a part of your sex positive journey to discover more about your sexuality, so have fun and enjoy!
SEX TOYS THAT CAN FIT IN YOUR DRESSER DRAWER AND MORE
Maybe you live at home with your parents, roommates or have other family members running around your house, and that can make intimacy a little tricky. It’s not that you can’t unwind with your favorite sex toy, but you definitely need to be more careful.
The last thing you want is your parents discovering your vibrato. Or having to chase after your annoying cousin who managed to get ahold of your butt plug—what a nightmare!
Whether you’re looking for a sex toy for couples or self-pleasure, the toys on our list are interchangeable and can be used for whichever occasion. Most online sex shops have these toys, so they’ll be easy to find and add to your collection.
If you’re looking for a low-key and subtle sex toy to add to your repertoire, we have the perfect selection for you. Oh, and we have some good hiding spots too.
For the ultimate spot stimulation, Kiiroo’s Clit Stim vibrator allows women to dive into pleasure with this waterproof, pocket-sized clit massager. On top of that, it provides two-way pleasure online. For solo-pleasure, you can engage with interactive erotic videos or play with your partner from a distance.
But did I mention it was pocket-sized? When you have a pocket-sized clit massager, it's so easy when it comes to hiding it. You can store it in a Tupperware container in your cupboard, in a silk pouch in your makeup bag. The options are endless.
For awhile, cock rings were seen as "kinky" (honestly, most sex toys were taboo. Thankfully, we're sex positive now!), but they do wonders for a guy's sex life. Aside from maintaining strong erections and helping a man last longer, they're extremely easy to hide. They fit in the palm of your hand, making them easy to conceal.
Throw your vibrating cock in your dresser, hide it under some underwear, and you're good to go. Maybe you can even have it on your ring stand—who's going to know it's a vibrating cock ring? Just make sure you clean it before using it. Dusty cock rings aren't a turn-on.
Vibrating bullets are amazing for female pleasure. It’s one of those sex toys that can easily go incognito and not bring any attention to itself. If you’re in a crowded home, a vibrating bullet can be low-key and be perfect for g-spot stimulation.
Even if your bedroom doesn’t have a lock, the bullet will go completely unnoticed. You can have it in your dresser drawer or, if you’re looking for a bit more security, place it in a box or purse in your closet. Just make sure it’s a box or purse no one would feel inclined to borrow.
Virtual Reality Headset
Sex toys are entering a completely new world—and it’s a fun one. Aside from the fact you get to immerse yourself in a fantasy world of your choice with Kiiroo’s Onyx+ Realm VR set, it’s extremely easy to store.
The remote controlled Onyx+ looks like your everyday portable speaker, and the VR headset is usually associated with gaming—not erotic content. So, when it comes to both devices, you’re in the clear. To make it look even more low-key if you have a gaming console, place them next to it, no one is going to know what it’s really for.
Long-distance Couples Set
You may be in a long-distance relationship with your partner, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy intimate moments with them. An amazing sex toy for couples (especially long-distance ones) is Kiiroo’s Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set. This high tech remote-controlled set is closing the gap for long-distance couples, but it may be a bit too big for your dresser drawer.
Though these high tech toys are larger than a bullet or cock ring, that doesn’t mean you can’t find a home for them at your place. The remote controlled Onyx+ looks like a portable speaker, so you don’t actually have to hide it. Instead, let it mimic what it looks like.
Now, the Pearl2 vibrator looks like a vibrator, but wrap it up in a towel in your drawer or closet and no one will bat an eye.
Who doesn’t love a good butt plug? That said, they’re a little more obvious when it comes to their design. I mean, what else could it be? It’s not one of those toys you can simply leave out, and people wouldn’t see.
Oh, they’re going to notice this one. No matter how much pleasure you get from butt plugs, you need a good hiding spot.
Of course, butt plugs can fit easily in your dresser drawer, but maybe you’ll want a more secure place to store them. If there’s one toy you don’t want your kids to get ahold of, it’s a butt plug.
A great hiding spot is in a coat pocket in your closet. Just make sure you clean the toy before storing it and remember to take it out before wearing your coat outside!
You can always find a place to store your sex toys. However, it’s important to remind you, wherever you choose to store them, make sure you clean your toys before and after using them.
The best sex is safe sex. Try out some of these toys on our list if you’re looking for discreet and subtle sex positive toys for self-pleasure.
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.