Turning Fantasy Into Reality
Sex is great, but have you ever tried it while being a naughty nurse or a sexy angel? Adding roleplay into your sex life is an exciting way to spice things up. It is also a great opportunity to discover new sexual fantasies with your partner.
On the first try, it may be a little awkward. But the beauty of roleplay is that you have endless ways to explore sexuality while taking a break from reality. If you want to play out a long-lived fantasy or try something new, check out these ten roleplay ideas.
1. Librarian and Library Patron
Everyone has thought, at least once, about being naughty with a sexy librarian. But when we think about books and intelligence, they’re not initially seen as sexually arousing. Though that’s where most people are mistaken.
Knowledge is sexy, so why not bring it into the bedroom? Get into sexy outfits that suit the library scene, grab a book off the shelf, and punish your partner for talking too loudly.
2. Nanny and hot single parent
It’s always the nanny. Well, at least it is in the movies. The hot single parent having sexual attraction towards the nanny is arousing for two reasons. Firstly, you’re having sex with someone who works for you.
Secondly, single parents are single for a reason. Perhaps their partner left them or tragically passed away - that’s for you to decide. But the nanny is there to console them and rock their world. The best part is for this roleplay; you don’t need any costumes.
3. Good cop and bad cop
You and your partner have been working together for a while, and your partner is one sexy cop. When it comes to questioning a criminal, you two both have your roles. The tension between you two has been growing for some time, and today, you give in to your sexual urges.
Use sexy text roleplay to heat things up beforehand. If you have a sexy cop costume from Halloween or handcuffs, you’re ready to go. If not, be undercover detectives or a secret agent, that way, it doesn’t matter what you wear. Use sex toys to spice things up.
4. Wrestler and fan
If you want to incorporate some steamy wrestling moves into your roleplay, this sexy cosplay idea will do the trick. The wrestler and fan roleplay make for tight, small, and sexy costumes. If you’re a fan of wrestling, you can play as one of your favorite characters.
As a fan, you ask the wrestler to teach you some moves. And after they show you a couple, you realize there’s some sexual tension between you both. This sexy cosplay idea is more physical than others, amping up the heat in the bedroom.
5. Real estate agent and home buyer
You’re interested in buying a home, and of course, your real estate agent is extremely sexy. What are you going to do? You can’t make a move; you’re conducting a business transaction. You have to keep it professional.
But when they look this sexy, it’s hard not to do anything with them in a big, empty house. The real estate agent and home buyer role-play scenario is a great way to tick off having sex in every room of your house.
6. The College professor and student
Most of us have had a sexy teacher, but have never made a move on them. They’re our teacher, we see them as an authority. Since roleplay is based on power dynamics, nothing says power than a professor.
Incorporate sexy text roleplay by texting your partner in character before the meeting. Have the college student visit their professor after hours and see where it goes.
7. Doctor and nurse
You’ve heard of the naughty nurse and patient roleplay, but what about doctors and nurses? They work long hours together all day under stressful conditions. Sometimes you need to release the negative energy with a coworker. But how are you going to do that?
Oh, you know how. Use sexy text roleplay to let the doctor know you have a fifteen-minute break before your next shift begins. The doctor/nurse roleplay is always fun, and if you’ve watched Grey’s Anatomy, you already have some medical terms to throw in your dialogue.
8. Uptight boss and challenging employee
Your boss is a complete jerk, but at the same time, they’re super sexy. It’s definitely making you feel conflicted, but you need to get your anger out somehow. Create an office scene and dress in sexy outfits that show off your assets.
Let the boss get angry, and as a feisty employee, mouth back. They’re not going to take it well, and you didn’t want them to. If you love teaching your partner or vice versa, this is a great roleplay to try out.
9. Yoga Instructor and athlete
Yoga instructors are hot. They’re flexible, powerful, and full of energy, similar to a sexy teacher. Athletes are hot, sweaty and have matching energy.
In this scenario, your instructor has been suppressing their attraction to you. They don’t want to cross the line, but you’re ready to reciprocate those feelings.
If you have a gym in your home, it’ll really make the scene more lifelike. But if not, try this after a workout or throw on your gym clothes to make the character more realistic.
10. Angel and devil
Most of us have two voices in our heads: the good and the bad. The sexy angel and devil roleplay can be played with two or more people. If you have sexy outfits, you can really create a realistic scene.
Also, you can also spice it up a bit and include ASMR sexy roleplay. What this means is while the sexy angel is guiding you to good, and the devil to bad. They whisper dirty talk and use other gentle stimuli to give a tingling feeling. ASMR sexy roleplay is amazing when mixed with the devil and sexy angel.
We added onto the list and gave you ten new roleplay ideas. Try them out and escape reality with your partner for the night and don’t forget to use safe words before you start. This will help you both communicate, especially if there is something you are not comfortable doing.
As a woman you want to start with roleplay? Use one of the tips to surprise your partner!
15 SEXY ROLEPLAY IDEAS FOR WOMEN TO SURPRISE THEIR PARTNERS WITH
A FLIGHT OF FANTASY
Let’s face it: No matter how awesome one’s sex life may be there’s just something innately exhilarating about adding a little bit of roleplay. The build-up to the scenario, the thrill of the pretense, and the eventual release all makes for one steamy encounter that will stay with you long after the costumes have been removed.
Involving more dungeons than it does dragons, sexual roleplay is the art of acting out a fantasy together in an erotic or sexual manner.
As you can imagine, the possibilities are near endless when it comes to surprising your partner with a sexy escape from reality. However, we’re personally partial to the following 10 sexual roleplay classics (with a few new ideas put in for kicks).
THE SECRETARY AND HER BOSS
(This one works especially well if your partner already wears a suit to work).
When you partner next come home from a hard day’s work, surprise him by transforming into his own sexy secretary. Your home is the office and he’s struggling with his latest project. If only there was some way to relieve his built-up frustrations…
Bonus points for this roleplay scenario being quick to set up. All you need is a smart-but-revealing suit, some high-heels, glasses, and your best “sir”.
THE MAID AND HOTEL GUEST
Another classic and a great reason to buy yourself a fun new sexy outfit.
Set the scene so that your partner comes in to find you bent over dusting, or doing something equally provocative.
From there you can either pretend that you’re horribly behind on your cleaning and should be punished accordingly or you can keep on seductively going about your business until he makes the first move. The choice is yours.
THE SCHOOLGIRL AND TEACHER
Sometimes the most compelling fantasies can be the ones that we would never condone in real life. The Teacher and pupil has to be one of these and this added air of social taboo just adds to its sexual potency.
Another minimalist roleplay (a revealing shirt, a short skirt, and some pigtails should do the trick), surprise your partner with your newfound look before establishing the scene. You’re the troublesome student in class and you’re behind held behind for detention. As you misbehave your teacher must find new ways to put you in place.
Make sure to keep a sturdy wooden ruler close by for those much-needed spankings too.
THE HOLLYWOOD STARLET AND THE DEDICATED FAN
Does your partner have a favorite Hollywood actress? Someone he can’t take his eyes off of when she’s on screen?
Take the time to get dressed up like this movie icon and recreate one of his favorite movie scenes. He’ll no doubt show his approval during.
THE AIR HOSTESS AND THE PASSENGER
Another great one for getting in that sexy costume, you’re the air hostess and he’s the passenger getting settled in for a long flight.
With your stunning outfit and desire to please you settle your passenger in ready for a special form of in-flight entertainment (VIPs only).
This is also a great way to join the mile high club without fear of being caught in the act (or having to cramp yourself into one of those dreadful toilet compartments).
THE HOMEOWNER AND THE DELIVERY MAN
Ask your partner to bring home some takeout and get yourself dressed in whatever lingerie you feel would work best. Then, when he arrives, pretend that he’s the takeaway delivery man and you’re the sexually eager homeowner looking for someone to help satisfy a different kind of appetite.
Just make sure that the takeaway you get can be reheated: You’ll need it after a long session of lovemaking.
STRANGERS AT A BAR
This one is like a date night and a roleplay experience all rolled into one.
Invite your partner out for the night and agree to meet at the bar. From there you can begin to act out meeting again for the very first time.
Texting your partner in advance to fill him in on the basics of the scenario might be a good idea but there’s no reason as to why you can’t surprise him with that once he’s got there.
THE SUPERHERO AND SAVIOUR
Superheroes are all the rage right now meaning there’s no shame in indulging in your own super-charged evening (plus the costumes are easy to rent). Fun fact: Wonder Woman is powerless if bound in rope. Why not pretend to be all tied up and have your partner come in to save you? Alternatively, have a costume for him ready when you get home too and play out a scene as your favorite superhero couple. And, of course, there’s always some fun in playing the villains too…
THE NURSE AND PATIENT
What’s more iconic in the world of sexual roleplay than the nurse and her patient? This particular roleplay scenario is primed for props and puns, making in a great bit of tongue-in-cheek fun in addition to a sincerely arousing sexual scenario.
Get your partner to strip down to a robe and ask him to wait in the bedroom before surprising himself with a much-needed medical examination. The rest writes itself.
THE ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE AND USER
This one is for all of you Kiiroo users out there.
Introduce a little bit of Kiiroo roleplay into your messaging sessions by pretending to be an artificial intelligence with an interest in human desire. From there open up the Kiiroo Platform and act as if you’re either a voluptuous Ex Machina-style Cyborg hacking your partner’s private play session or the next Scarlet Johansson from Her being taught the ways of erotica (but, y’know, without the bittersweet ending).
YOUR COLLEGE JOB
Most of us have worked a customer service job at one point or other in college. If you happened to work in the food sector, then chances are you had a uniform. Now is your opportunity to turn your hate of aprons or caps into a sexy moment with your partner. Did you work at a coffee shop? Then wear your apron without anything underneath. Did you work in a bookshop? Then start giving your partner a few book descriptions to help him with his purchase.
Bonus if you describe erotic books. Most of us didn’t know our partners back in college, so it is an opportunity to get to know each other a little better. You already know the role perfectly, and they will fall in love with your cute college self.
FLIP THE ROLE
Often couples end up with a certain power dynamic. It might be unintentional, but maybe one of you initiates more often or maybe chooses to change positions or maybe hands out a few spanks. If it is an intentional power dynamic, then this role-playing will become even more interesting. Take whatever dominant/submissive roles you have been fulfilling and flip them.
Whoever gets tied up now does the tying up. Whoever directs during oral sex now has to remain quiet. Flip the roles and you’ll discover a whole new facet to your sex life. The best part about it being a role-playing experience is that you can act out of your comfort zone. You aren’t telling your partner that you want a permanent role reversal – you just want it for one night.
A lot of role-playing is based on power dynamics, and photography is no exception. One of you will be the camera director while the other one will be the model. You can model anything you wish, but lingerie is an obvious choice. The camera director gets to make commands about poses and the model has to listen.
You can take it further and either have the model seduce the photographer or the photographer command the model to do more than just pose. Whichever direction this scenario takes, you will end up with some excellent photographic evidence. You’ll get to keep the pictures forever as a reminder of that super sultry night.
WEARING A UNIFORM
This is a broad category as there are so many uniforms jobs available, but that is what makes it fun and modifiable. Maybe your partner has always wanted to sleep with a fireman or maybe they drool at the idea of a timid pizza deliveryman. You don’t necessarily need to purchase a whole costume, but you can purchase a few accessories to make it seem more realistic.
A police officer can have a badge and some handcuffs. A repairman might have a polo shirt and a tool belt. When there is a uniform involved, it amplifies the power dynamic, but it doesn’t always mean that the unformed person is in charge. Discuss what you might like and then make sure to act out a little entrance. “I think there’s a fire burning up in here”. The build-up to sex will be the hottest part.
This scenario is a classic one for a reason. No power dynamics are needed, just the enthusiasm of both partners. The idea is that you pretend to be strangers meeting for the first time, and inevitably have a one-night stand or a bathroom quickie or anything in between. It is not intended to cause jealousy and if you are prone to this, then maybe this scenario is not for you. It is intended to give you a new rush as if meeting your partner for the first time again.
You can easily amplify this scenario by wearing a non-typical outfit or by wearing a wig, but it is not necessary. Often the scenario starts in public, at a bar or an event and progresses back to “my house or yours”, even if that is the same place. You get to make up a character and play along with it.
Maybe you’re normally shy but are feeling bold tonight. Maybe you are normally the life of the party but want to timidly attempt to reject your partner’s advances. Whatever the case may be – it will light a little spark in your night.
Sex tech and roleplay have never felt so good together.
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.